How to Change Your Name After Marriage

Follow these steps for changing your name after marriage, and you'll have it done in no time!

Basic Steps for Your Marriage Name Change

1.   Decide what your new name will be.
2.    Make your name change legal.
3.   Change your name with organisations.

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Marriage Name Changes

Step 1 - Decide What Your New Married Name Will Be

When getting married, the traditional and most common marriage name change in the past has been for the bride to take on the groom's name. While still the most common name change, one person will take on the other's name.

Hyphenating your last names is a growing trend among modern couples. The name pairs are often hyphenated (Smith-Jones, Smith-Johnson, and so forth). Approximately 5% of couples do this to create a new family surname.

Similar to hyphenating, you can double barrel names by adding the last name to the first name (Smith Jones). This is actually becoming less common, and being replaced with the next option...

Lots of newlyweds are moving to a new trend of making their maiden name their middle name, and their spouse's name their last name. So for example, Jane Anne Jones becomes Jane Jones Smith, where Jones is now their middle name. While it reads a bit like a double barrelled name, this subtle difference actually makes a big difference when it comes to filling out forms and dealing with organisations over the phone where it is often easier to communicate a simple last name. It combines the best of both worlds and allows newlyweds to retain their maiden name, but also take on their spouse's name, and the best bit is it is completely legal and easy to do.

Another option is to make up a totally new name. The sky is the limit here and you can choose anything you like, from a combination of names to something completely new. It's perfectly legal and you can both use this name if you like.

There are actually lots of different ways you can change or you, read more about your name change options here.

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Our webpage above will tell you all about your name change options after marriage.

Keep in mind that the marriage name change process will likely be different depending on what you choose as your new name, with taking on your spouse's name thought of by most as the easiest option.

NB: If you are taking on your spouse's name but only in certain situations, such as only among family and friends, you don't have to make your new name legal. It is perfectly ok to use your husband or wife's name socially without changing your official ID documents and this is called "name by association". If this is what you choose to do, you can stop right here and you don't have to follow any of the further steps!
If you are wanting to change your name on your ID and with organisations... read on!

Make your name change legal

Step 2 - Make Your Married Name Change Legal

If you want to make your name change legal, you're going to need evidence of your name change to satisfy authorities and organisations that you are going to, or already have changed your name.

The evidence you need depends on what you change your name to and the kind of name change process you go through. This will be different, for example, if you take on your husband's name or if you make up a new name. Despite popular belief, the 'certificate' that your marriage celebrant gives you on your wedding day is not enough. This is a commemorative certificate only and won't be accepted as it is not an official document. Your "official" certificate comes from the Registry of Births Deaths and Marriages once your marriage celebrant has registered your marriage.

Contact your state or territory's Registry of Births Deaths and Marriages (BDM) in order to get a copy of your registered certificate:
Victoria - VIC BDM
New South Wales - NSW BDM
Australian Capital Territory - ACT BDM
Queensland - QLD BDM
Western Australia - WA BDM
South Australia - SA BDM
Northern Territory - NT BDM
Tasmania - TAS BDM

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Above is an example from the NSW Registry of Births Deaths and Marriages of a registered marriage certificate and a commemorative certificate (not acceptable to most organisations as "official" documentation).

Once you have your certificate, all you need to do is show it to organisations and ask them to change your name. Some organisations also have forms they will need you to fill in for their own record keeping purposes.

If you are changing your name to something other than your spouse's name you can't use your marriage certificate as evidence of your change of name and you will need an official name change certificate instead. This is a different process.

Change your name after marriage with organisations

Step 3 - Change Your Name With Organisations

This is the tedious part! The average Australian bride will change her name with 55 organisations (not counting social media).

The best thing to do first is to make a list of everywhere you need to change your name, and then investigate how to change your name with each place. Some will be easy and straight-forward, and some will make you jump through hoops.

The most common places you will need to change your name include your passport, your drivers license and registration, bank accounts, the Australian Taxation Office, Medicare, insurance policies, superannuation, your will (in most cases your marriage will cancel any previously written wills), the Australian Electoral Commission and all of your subscriptions and memberships. As stated above, this adds up to around 55 organisations for most brides (and/or grooms).

We here at After The Wedding recommend starting with your drivers license and then moving onto banks and financial institutions, if you have our name change kit the reason for this is spelled out and it makes total sense.

This is another plug for our name change kit, it has an amazing checklist so you don't miss anywhere and it will make your name change a breeze!

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Name Change Top Tips

Top Tips for Changing Your Name After Marriage

Tip 1:  Practice your new signature before you start your name change process. Practice it A LOT.

Tip 2:  Keep copies of everything. This includes a photocopy (or photo) of your drivers license, passport etc before you go to get your name changed, as you will have to hand in your original.

Tip 3:  Be diligent in keeping records of where you have changed your name and what is still left to go.

Tip 4:  Do it all as quickly as possible. There's nothing worse than being known by one name somewhere, and one name somewhere else, especially if you can't remember where you're up to in your name change process.

Use a Name Change Kit to Make it Easy & Straight-Forward

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A name change kit will lead you through the steps of changing your name, providing you with all the forms and online links you need, making sure you get it done as quick as a flash without missing anyone.
Check out our Name Change Kit here!

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